givingandloving:
what a crock of shit. YOU are the person who makes you happy. acceptance of yourself and love for who you are is the ultimate happiness. even when you’re thinner, if you don’t have that, then you will always carry that insecurity around with you. if you can’t accept yourself now, then you will never accept yourself when you’re thin.
I agree with you to an extent. I think it is YOU who makes you happy and that accepting yourself is the ultimate happiness. But you cant pretend that people just automatically think like that. Or that its easy to love yourself. If it is for you, great you’re awesome and a step ahead of many, but for the rest it is most certainly NOT a simple feat.
I hate myself now because of my weight, I hate the way it makes me feel I hate the way it keeps me from things and I hate the way people look at me and automatically judge or write me off. And its not something outside of myself, its something thats a part of me. Its something that I havent done anything about, its something that brings out my weaknesses and I hate myself because of it.
Once it’s gone, so too will all of the negative baggage that comes with it be.
So no, not loving myself now doesnt mean I will never love myself. And I think thats a really shitty thing to tell anyone for any reason. It doesnt give someone hope or motivation or inspiration. Its pretty much a message to give up because if you can’t accept yourself now then theres no point in trying because it will never happen.
Forgive me but, Fuck You. I’m going to do this and then Ill be able to be happy because Ill be able to do all the things that make me happy. Ill be able to find out who I am and I will love that person, all this hate and negativity will melt away with the pounds.
and everything will be perfect.
^ that.
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